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I Planned to Be a Cardigan-Wearing Housewife. Here’s What Happened.

I grew up in Kalkaska, Michigan, the self-proclaimed Trout Capital of the state, population small enough that everyone knew your business better than you did. And like a lot of young girls in a lot of small towns, I had big dreams: I remember telling my parents, with total confidence, that after I met those … Learn More

A Brake, Or a Break?

I remember the first time I read Toni Morrison’s Beloved. It was late at night in my college apartment, a stack of other assigned books glaring at me from the desk, each one adding its own quiet pressure to the evening. But I couldn’t move past Morrison’s sentences: the way she set a scene, the … Learn More

Delivering the Bet on You Keynote to Abbott – Even Over Zoom, the Energy Was Undeniable 

I recently had the privilege of delivering my Bet on You keynote to the incredible team at Abbott, and I have to say, this audience reminded me exactly why I do what I do. Even through a Zoom screen, the engagement was electric. The chat was alive with responses, the reactions were genuine, and you could feel the energy … Learn More

The Leadership Lessons Hiding in My Moving Boxes

I notice a pattern in high-performing leaders: the ones who feel most behind are rarely the ones actually behind. They’re comparing their scoreboard to someone else’s game. I got a personal reminder of this recently.  (Hey, I’m on this journey, too!) “Let’s face it, Angie: everyone, ultimately, will find themselves living in a two-bedroom condo.” … Learn More

Are You “The Actual” You?

Not to brag, but I’ve got some powerhouse collaborators. Stephanie Cox, former SLB president and CEO of Wood Group Americas, is one of them. Together we created a mastermind for energy, infrastructure, and industrial executives, and it’s one of the most successful and fulfilling ventures I’ve been part of. When high-performing senior leaders gain the … Learn More

Getting Gutsy Again

My bike’s been collecting dust for two years. Then, after watching my son complete a major goal of his own, something in me stirred. His accomplishment reminded me of who I am at my core: an athlete to the bone. So I pulled out the tire pump, got out the grease, and hit the trails. … Learn More

You Always Have More To Give Than You Think

“If your bayonet breaks, strike with the stock; if the stock gives way, hit with your fists; if your fists are hurt, bite with your teeth.”— General Dragomirov I came across this quote while touring the National Museum of the Marine Corps on Officer Candidate School’s Family Day – the moment I finally got to … Learn More

Is Pain Weakness Leaving the Body?

There’s a sadistic little saying in the Marine Corps: “Pain is weakness leaving the body.” I’ve been thinking about it a lot lately, because my son Judge is in his fifth week of Officer Candidate School. But before I get to that, let me take you back a few years. When Judge was a freshman … Learn More

The Marine Corps, The Miserable Middle, and My Son

Dear Judge, Remember running the 400m?  Rounding that last corner and feeling like your chest is about to explode, and your legs are weighted down by cinder blocks?  You’ve lost the adrenaline you had at the starting line as you were sizing up the other runners – who’s got it in them, who you’re going … Learn More