Are We Good Americans … Worthy of Their Sacrifices?

I’ve been sitting with an uncomfortable question today: Am I worthy of the sacrifices our service members are willing to make for our safety, security, and freedom? More simply — am I a good American? Today is Memorial Day. Not “Happy Memorial Day” — there’s nothing happy about it. It’s somber, sacred, and reflective. It’s … Learn More

Is it burnout … or an existential crisis?

My 4:00 a.m. alarm wasn’t subtle.  When it went off, every fiber in my being rejected the notion that I had to get out of bed.  My husband was out of town, and I had a grad school final to finish before my boys, then ten and five, woke up and asked for waffles. It … Learn More

Stop Waiting for Rock Bottom to Become Who You’re Meant to Be.

When I was going through one of the most disruptive seasons of my life, I somehow knew it was going to take two years to find my footing again. And in that knowing, I faced a choice. I could come out the other side bitter, hateful, and resentful. Or I could come out more grateful, … Learn More