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Your Ego Isn’t Bad … Here are Three Ways to Keep it In Check

“Give your ego a name.” My friend recommended this after I shared that there are times my ego gets in the way of my best intentions. Their idea was that naming my ego would help me separate myself from the part of me that is selfish, self absorbed, and unaccountable. The part of me that screams … Learn More

Courage to Change Your Mind

I’m much more fun when I drink. At least, that’s what I’ve been told.  After a few cocktails, I let my guard down, my stream of consciousness flows, and soon I’m dancing like no one’s watching (although everyone is watching and it’s quite the spectacle).  To be fair: this was more common when I was … Learn More

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Re-Invigorate Your Life by Doing This

“That was the best thing ever.”  I shared this with my oldest son, Judge, the other day. We’d just listened to an episode of Hardcore History by Dan Carlin – it was a 3-hour lesson on Alexander the Great. This was just Part 1. Had you asked me two weeks ago if I had several … Learn More

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Free Your Mind

“Well, it’s a free country.” If I had to count the number of times I’ve said that phrase in sarcasm, it’d be ridiculous.  This time, this week, I’m saying it seriously: Hey, it’s a free country. Remember? People fought and died for every single ounce of freedom that we enjoy today.   Do you ever lose … Learn More

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Stray From the Path. It’s Okay.

You know the tale of Little Red Riding Hood… The story of a little girl who was told to bring cake and wine to her ailing Grandma.  Her mom told her that while she was on her journey, she needed to: Well, that little rebel didn’t listen. Little Red Riding Hood did her own thing … Learn More

Discipline: The Un-Sexy Side of Leadership

Picture this: It’s 1998. A newly minted second lieutenant arrives at Marine Corps Base Hawaii. She’s already passed the intense physical trials the Corps put her through. Now, as a young officer assigned to Headquarters Battalion, she’s on her own and adulting: She’s in charge and calling the shots. One of her first acts of liberation is … Learn More

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 I did it!  I created an Accountability EQUATION.  Check this out.

I have a 13 year old son, which basically means I’m getting unsolicited feedback on my leadership style all the time. BELIEVE ME: He’s made it very clear how he views my performance in the organization. I’m amazed – ASTOUNDED, actually …  by how comfortable he is “leading up.” Yet, what’s refreshing is that I now … Learn More

New Year’s Resolution – or Revolution?

I woke up this morning with a hopeful heart. 2024 is going to be a miraculous year.  Not just because of the magic in the number 24 – it’s going to be great because I’m going to make it so. Many often launch into the New Year with a resolution-focused mindset, which is making a … Learn More